Sugar Daddies, Wealthy Men, white men, black men, women don't want a broke man DUH

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Racial profiling or playing the race card

The media made this a racial issue from day one. This is the cause and or reason why we are aware that people on a national scale cares. I've raised my voice on many issues within my community regardless of race these are issues that we face as a society every day. A young girl shot in her home during a drive by and we know someone from that neighborhood did it but why isn't that issue on the news everyday? Why aren't we made aware on the updates of cases such as this?  A young man shoots a child in the face why isn't that the issue on the news every day? Women, men and children from all over the world go missing everyday but a woman who fled before her wedding makes national news? Lets think logically, would you be aware of any issues whether it's a high level crime story and or missing person case if the media didn't put it out there and glamorize it to make it appear to be more than what it is. Its unfortunate that this is what society with the help of the media wants everyone to believe- That we as 'blacks' play the race card. I've contacted my local news and CNN etc about issues that just don't make a story they can run and spin to their advantage. Trayvon Martin and Jordan Davis: two young black males gunned down by non black men crying self defense, why? Because they can get away with it. Jordan Davis shot multiple times by Michael David Dunn out of fear. His story like Zimmerman's has changed quite a few times since being arrested. Out of fear on what he presumed was a gun being pointed at him in one response, the other was it appeared that one of the person's in the vehicle was reaching down to retrieve what he could only believe was a gun, so he takes out a gun shoots up the vehicle leave the scene and is now claiming he did it out of protecting himself. There were no weapons of any kind found in the vehicle and or on any of the victims yet the media tried their best to immediately go after what kind of kid Davis was, why is that? They want to label Davis as a disruptive teen because aren't all young black males 'thugs'? The shooters in these cases are pulling the race card because they know how society looks at young black males. Young black males are immediately viewed to society as violent, soon to be locked up degenerates. "They are treated as criminals until proved other wise by our society". Due to the positive comments and history on what type of kid Jordan Davis was, I am curious to find out what will Dunn's defense team come up with to defend their client's actions. They have already stated they will run with the 'self defense and or 'Stand your ground' law. A law that has made a point of defending those that provokes violence out of fear; then cries for the self defense plea to get them an out of jail free card for crimes they have committed. Not denying that black on black crime has become a major issue in our communities. Any crime committed should never be accepted regardless of the race of the individuals involved. With that being said, there is a difference of the level of emotions that are felt amongst "blacks" when a crime is committed whereas the victim is put on display and outcast by society as a 'thug' and the suspect labeled as a victim pleads self defense and his word is taken for it. No evidence, just his word. Maybe as a whole "blacks" come together to stand united when it becomes a trend that we can be shot to death because the color of our skin is an automatic reason for an assailant to plead self defense. Our tweet history along with our text messages not related to the crime committed can be used against us.  Our behavior in school can determine who we are and be used against us yet actual criminal charges and arrest records of the defendent is swept under the rug? (ZIMMERMAN'S 2005 ARREST) And society says that's good enough.  Society says that's justice.  With the racial slurs being tweeted and posted on Facebook it would clearly justify why the 'race card' may be taken into consideration, when crimes such as these are committed. The race card is played, when the victim becomes the suspect due to being labeled as a criminal and died because of that stereotype.

Wait, What?: Justice for Trayvon is much more than playing the ...

Wait, What?: Justice for Trayvon is much more than playing the ...: As individuals we have specific character traits that says a lot about who we are. The Zimmerman trial has proven that to be a fact. Prose...

Justice for Trayvon is much more than playing the 'race card'

As individuals we have specific character traits that says a lot about who we are. The Zimmerman trial has proven that to be a fact. Prosecutors hasn't been able to prove what they intended and that was to make Zimmerman look like a 'wanna be cop' acting on non authority to approach whom he believed to be a suspect in his community due to “racial profiling”. The defense team though has proven that Trayvon Martin's character was a teen whom got into fights, smoked weed and was heading down the wrong path. Because of this he wasn't thinking like a well mannered and respectful individual who could make the right decisions that would have avoided his death. The defense with the help of the media from the very beginning went straight for finding out what kind of teen Martin was. They set out to prove that he either deserved to be shot and or his attitude caused his own death. Unfortunately we will never know what Zimmerman said to Martin when he approached him. We will never know if Zimmerman's attitude wasn't one that provoked Martin to be anything but approachable. From the very beginning Zimmerman's testimony with the Sanford police department proved that Zimmerman's word was the only proof they needed and or cared about. That says a lot to the people that has been touched by this incident. After reading some of the comments after the trial updates on local websites, I am not surprised by the comments on the message boards. I have read over time enough to know just how bias, prejudice and racist our society is. One poster's comment actually compares Martin to a wild dog that needed to be put down. It's sad to know that Martin is now the teen that deserved to die as one poster commented that “too bad he wasn't smart enough to communicate with Zimmerman, he would have been able to go home and drink his Arizona and eat his skittles” the comments are unbelievable sometimes hurtful and painful to read. The fear that rises within me due to cases such as Trayvon Martin and Jordan Davis is that because in the minds of non blacks we are 'savages' 'violent beings', though history has proven otherwise. These persons have an immediate fear when dealing with people they cannot relate to, that if they acted in self defense its automatically justifiable. I am Trayvon Martin. We are all Trayvon Martin. What attitude should we have if ever approached by someone that we don't know while walking at night-which I have done from the corner store on several occasions? This person suspects you to be a criminal because he/she has never saw you before which gives them credible suspicion. As a mother of a teen daughter I am reaching out to other parents. We need to get to know our teens a little more. With cell phones, internet social boards etc someone could easily go onto these sites and learn a lot about us even though it may not be who we are in actuality. Set all active internet social boards to security level of privacy. Only friends should see your posts. Not friends of friends and or the public. Make sure that they aren't posting foolishness on sites such as Facebook, Twitter etc that will diminish their character. Set a curfew for your teen and or make sure they walk with someone when its after dark. It doesn't matter what age. I will never feel comfortable with my daughter walking at night by herself and this could definitely be because I have a daughter and not a son but this incident proves that safety is in numbers. (Ex. A witness for Trayvon's case though he is not the one on trial) Our teens need to learn to control their attitude. We all know that regardless race plays a major roll in how the Sanford police handled the situation from the beginning. As well as how the responders of this case are acting out. If things were reversed? Black man, White teen? Exactly. Yet in still we act on our emotions. We become defensive really quick and dealing with this society, controlling our attitudes will save our lives from the BS they are calling self defense and or the Stand Your Ground Law. Questions that I ask myself after hearing the closing arguments for the prosecution: Why wasn't Zimmerman's actions on his 2005 arrest record brought up? Why did the prosecutors fail to mention that in this arrest Zimmerman wasn't involved but yet put himself into a situation whereas he wanted to be a part of the problem and not the solution. Why is the defense team and their constituents asking why didn't Martin retreat whereas this could be the same question they should be asking of Zimmerman? Zimmerman's actions in this case proves that he seeks out confrontational situations. That is a known fact in this case. There is no truth in a lie. This is what the defense team and all who seek out justice not for the victim in this case which is the decedent but the shooter. As a society we will always be divided that will never change. The 'race card' will always be the underlining tension within our society. It's inevitable. Fact or opinion read the local message boards on local news sites. If we aren't the criminal in the situation they will make us the criminal. #TravyonMartin